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If he is clean and pure, then he should marry free women. (Mushkoot Sharif Volume 2 Page 2 Book of Marriage Number; Jami Saghir Volume 2, Page 2 Number 2) Dear Islamic Brothers! In order to get this honor ..
Hazrat Abdullah bin Masood (may Allah be pleased with him) used to say that if there were only ten days left in my life, I would like to get married so that I should not go unmarried in the court of Allah Almighty. (Ahyaa al-Uloom vol. 2 p. 2 Kitab al-Nikah) This was the spirit of obedience of Hazrat Abdullah bin Masood (may Allah be pleased with him) to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). ۔
When his wife died, his relatives advised him to marry Abid, but he refused, saying that loneliness was too much for him. He had peace of mind. He said that the gates of heaven are open and some people are descending from the sky and floating in the air and when one of them passed by me he would say, Yes, then the third, then the fourth, he said the same thing, but I could not ask because of the house, who is unlucky, and when the last one of them passed by me, I asked him who is unlucky, to whom you are referring.
He said, "It is you." And when the eyes of this devotee were opened, they said: Marry me, marry me. (Ahyaa-ul-Uloom, Volume 1, Page 2, Kitab al-Nikah) ......
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Blessings in the Worship of the Married Hadith No. 11: It is narrated from Hazrat Anas bin Malik (RA) that the Holy Prophet (PBUH) said that two rak'ats of a married woman are better than seventy rak'ats of an unmarried person. ۔
(Jami 'Saghir Balada, page 2, No. 1) Explanation: From this blessed hadith, it is known that two rak'ats of married person are better than seventy rak'ats of unmarried person. Hazrat Bashar Hafi (PBUH) has said: Hazrat Imam Ahmad Bin Hanbal has exalted himself above me for three reasons. One is that they seek halal for themselves and for others and I do it only for myself.
Second is that Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal got married but I did not get married. Third is that he has been elected Imam of Muslims. ۔ (Ahyaa-ul-Uloom Volume 1, Page 3) Someone saw Hazrat Bashar Hafiz (may Allah have mercy on him) in a dream after his death and asked him what position he was given. He said, "I have been given seventy high ranks, but I have not been able to reach the level of married saints."
(Ahya-ul-Uloom, Vol. 2, 2) Hazrat Bashar Hafi (may Allah have mercy on him) later said: My Lord Almighty has said to me: Page 2) It is known that being married is dear to Allah Almighty. Remarkable Dear Muslim Brothers!
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Whenever you start doing something, do good intentions in it, because whatever the intention is, you will be rewarded, and being a Muslim, we should marry with the intention of Sunnah Mustafa (peace be upon him) because as mentioned above The virtues and benefits of marriage have been mentioned. All these are due to the blessings of the blessed Sunnah.
Otherwise, what does everyone do when it comes to marriage? Hindus, Sikhs, Jews and Christians, but the style of marriage of a Muslim should be different from all of them.
Intention of Marriage Boundary No. 12: It is narrated from Hazrat Sahl bin Saad (RA) that the Holy Prophet (PBUH) said that the intention of a Muslim is better than action. (Tabarani Kabir Volume 1 Page 2 Number 3) Domad Flower A. Without good intentions no good deed is rewarded.
The more good intentions, the greater the reward. The one who gets married should have good intentions so that he can be rewarded along with other benefits.
1- I will pay the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).
2- I will marry a good woman.
3- I will get married in this nation.
4- I will protect my faith through it.
5- I will protect my private parts through it.
6- I will save myself from malice. I will evacuate for the sake of having children, not just for pleasure or lust.
7- I will recite Bismillah and Masnoon Dua before the meeting.
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It will be a source of increase for the ummah of the Holy Prophet (sws). (Fatawa Rizviyah Volume 1 Page 2) If you make good intentions before marriage then you will be rewarded otherwise not. The following is an example of this.
Anecdote: A man was making a lighthouse in his house. You asked him what he was doing. On hearing this, the elder of Allah said: Why doesn't God intend to make a light so that the sound of the call to prayer may come and then the wind will come in the jungle.
Therefore, a Muslim should do whatever he does knowing the Sunnah, then he should marry with the intention of following the Sunnah, otherwise the reward will be greater.
It is the blessing of Sunnah Mubarakah and the blessing of non-Sunnah Mubarakah that according to our Imam Imam Azam Abu Hanifa, getting married is better than engaging in worship.
(Ahyaa-ul-Uloom Volume 1, Page 2) That is, a Muslim does not get married and is engaged in supererogatory worship of Allah Almighty. He stays awake at night and worships.
If he does not fast and does not observe a supererogatory fast, then this second one is better than the first one, because this second one has adopted the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).
The Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: May Allaah exalt the rank of a believing servant in Paradise.
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Have been raised to. Allah Almighty says: O servant, your son has prayed and asked forgiveness for you. That is why your rank has been raised and there is a hadith which says: O servant, your rank has been raised because your son has prayed for high ranks for you.
(Sunan al-Kubra Jiti vol. 2 p. 2 Kashf al-Ghamma vol. 2 p. 2 Musnaf Ibn Abi Shaybah vol. 1 p. 2) Explanation: Who owns everything? This is one of the benefits of marriage.
Curse on men and women who do not get married Will not do it . May the curse of Allah be upon those women who say they will not marry. (Kinz al-Amal vol. 1 p. 2)
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The first step in married life Choosing a good wife for marriage Any human being in any important work or problem in his daily life, that is, his opinion for himself or his family or his family or Expressing and sticking to the people of the society around you is one of the most difficult steps and thus the first step of married life is to choose a good wife for the man to live and live his future married life.
This is a case in which haste can be very harmful and in the same way a man's frustration and lack of courage in this matter is also a poison killer. In this regard, it happens in our society that if a man's relationship went to two or four places and the answer was no, then most of the family members become frustrated and hopeless, who will give the relationship to the whole family now.
Investigated, now there is no relationship, so now you can find a boy, even if it is not suitable for him (Unsuitable). Make a relationship.
Which in no way suits him. What happens then is that the whole life is full of fights and quarrels between husband and wife and God forbid, the time comes for beatings and divorce and it will not happen.
Therefore, in such a precise issue, ie in choosing a good wife, the boy should work hard and encourage his family and not let them be disappointed.
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In the hope of a good relationship with God, keep on praying sincerely with obedience to the divine commands, and the family members should also try their best to find a good relationship with a cold heart, carefully examining and establishing the relationship.
I . A few Madani flowers for choosing a good wife. The first thing to do is to recite Salat-ul-Hajat for at least two rak'ats, otherwise recite as much as Allah Almighty has given you.
At that time when there are no disgusting and forbidden times, then weep with great humility and sincerity and pray to Allah Almighty and ask again and again that I want to get married in Allah Almighty and give me a good wife by your grace and grace.
In addition to this, they can also ask for the supplication that Allahu alayhi wa sallam rushdi wa azni min shar nafsi "O Allah Almighty put in my heart that which is good for me and protect me from the evil of my nafs (Kinz-ul-Amal-e-Sharif, Volume 1, Zero 1, No. 2) 2- And secondly, in this matter, it is necessary to consult a person who is virtuous and pious, and at the same time, it is necessary to I would like to ask this person to have some experience in this field.
The Importance and Virtue of Istikharah Prayer Sometimes a person is hesitant in his work whether he should do it or not, such as traveling abroad or wanting to accept a relationship, or getting married. But all sorts of whispers and thoughts come to mind.
She is worried about what to do or not to do. For such occasions, Istikharah prayer has been mentioned in Shariat. Whether the performer of this prayer is a man or a woman, it is as if he is seeking the advice of his Lord Almighty. Istikharah first. The one who performs Istikharah prays to Allah Almighty:
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May the Almighty God indicate to me whether this work is better for me or not.
(Makhooz Faizan Sunnah Qadeem Page 1; Sunni Beheshti Zewar Page 2) Method of Istikharah The first two rak'ats should be recited in such a way that after Surah Al-Fatihah in the first rak'at then Phil Babha Al-Kafroon and after Surah Al-Fatihah in the second rak'at After completing it, return the salutation and then recite this supplication: O God, I have accepted you with knowledge, and you have been able to do so, and you have been able to do so from your great bounty.
Then Barak li fih and if you do not know that this matter is evil in religion and livelihood and the end of the commandment is far away from me and only for me and I am destined for the end as well as the earth. I seek power from the source and I ask you for great grace because you have power and I do not have power then you know everything and I do not know and you know all the hidden things.
O Allah Almighty if you know this Work (which I intend) my religion and faith and my life and my destiny in this world and the hereafter I am better for me, so make it destiny for me and make it easy for me, then bless it for me. After all, in this world and in the hereafter, give it to me and give it to me. Marfat.com
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Turn away from اور and wherever there is improvement, destiny for me and then please me with it. (Tirmidhi Sharif, Volume 3, Chapters of Al-Watir No. 2, Ibn Majah Sharif, Page 2, Chapters of Iqamah Al-Salat, No. 2) Issue: It is better to recite Istikharah at least seven times At the beginning and end of the dua, recite Surah Al-Fatihah and Durood Sharif.
Then see that there is good in the thing on which the heart is fixed. Some of the elders have said that it is better to perform Istikharah (Divination) if one sees white or white in a dream and it is bad to see red (or ink).
(Dartar, Volume 1, Page 2) Hadith Number: It is narrated from Hazrat Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to teach me (us) Istikharah in all matters as he used to teach us Surah of Holy Quran.
(Tirmidhi Sharif, Volume 1, Page 3, Chapter Al-Watir, No. 1) He avoids loss and remorse and does not regret what he has done. (Jami 'Saghir Volume 1 Safi 2 2 Number 1 Tabarani Average Number 2) Explanation That is why the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: He who performs Istikharah in important matters will not be at a loss, and marriage is an important aspect of human life. We should do Istikhara.
Hadith No. 2: Hazrat Abuni (may Allah be pleased with him) says that Hazrat Akmal Watahir (peace be upon him) said that he who can get married and then does not get married is not one of us. (Kinz al-Amal vol. 1 p. 2)
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Interpretation Dear Islamic brothers! It should be noted that the marriage and nikah prescribed by Allah Almighty for men and women has hidden many religious and worldly interests and needs.
Married man escapes from many evils and harms and worries and various diseases. The most important leader is obviously the one who is free from heart and eye diseases. Not only women but also men need wives. Especially the domestic system cannot be run by men. Witness the social experience. In the beginning of a man, life is spent with the help and support of his mother, sisters, etc. But after their passing or in the afterlife there is a lot of trouble. In case of getting sick on time, the man is in dire need of medicine and parasitic system etc.
Then man begins to prefer death to life. The purpose of marriage is not only to fulfill desires but also to maintain the system of life and health. He who does not get married is deprived of the support and benefits of children in old age.
In our Shari'ah, marriage is Sunnah and worship. For this reason, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to the men and women who did not get married, may Allaah curse them. Narration: If a good and virtuous man was offered marriage, he would refuse. After a few days, he woke up from his dream and said, "Marry me." After getting married, the family and friends inquired that at first he kept refusing to marry her and then he himself said, "Marry me, what is the reason for this?"
The He said: & I have seen in a dream that the Hour is coming and the creatures of Allah are together. I am also one of them.
They have silver bugs and gold glasses in their hands. The children are watering one man at a time, but some are being let go. I reached out to a child and said to me
